July 28, 2010

2 reasons why men and women can both get attached… when it comes to relationships

1.Men and Women are both people

Whether you like to believe it or not we both have feelings and emotions. Just because it is common for a guy to be pegged a “player” doesn’t mean women can’t be either. So why wouldn’t both men and women become attached to a person???

2.Age

At some point in your life you may not want to be in a relationship so anyone that may like you and want more will be disappointed. I am 24 and have no desire to get married at the moment. I am perfectly happy dating and just waiting to see what happens. If I was to date someone and it didn’t work out, I don’t think it would bother me all that much. When you are at a certain age you want different things for yourself. The distraction of a career or school will ease your attachment to someone. Both men and women go through this.

The feeling of attachment varies from one person to another. I know plenty of people who constantly need to be with someone and whoever shows them any form of “love” they get attached. Then there are the people who seem like they can’t be bothered with even keeping a consistent person in their life. I believe that when true love comes around it doesn’t matter. The love, respect, and friendship is mutual. Thus you don’t feel that attachment because you know the person will always be there no matter what. (Well you should feel that way. If you are someone who gets attached no matter what. These reasons do not apply! =0)

posted by KWIN on 7/28/2010 9:55:09 AM